Major Global Issue: Level 3 Consciousness

One of the greatest challenges in the world today is that the majority of people operate from Level 3 consciousness, best described as the Opportunist level of consciousness. This level is deeply rooted in a subconscious belief that, in every situation, someone must end up feeling defeated.

As a result, there is a profound, subconscious fear of feeling less than or unworthy when trying to get their needs met. Level 3s believe that if they don’t “win” the conversation, then they must be the ones to be inferior, to be defeated, and to be unworthy. For them, that idea about their identity is so unbearable that they are unconsciously driven to do whatever it takes to avoid it.

There is no convincing or reasoning with people at Level 3 because this is their fundamental way of being. It is the foundation of their consciousness, the lens through which they view the world, and it is deeply ingrained in their nervous system. It is the only thing they truly value, and they don’t even know it, nor can they see it. Because of this, there is no way to make them see that the world doesn’t have to function this way and that they don’t have to behave this way.

To them, almost all their interactions are battles between winners and losers, power and weakness, dominance and submission. This creates an exhausting and often painful reality for those who seek genuine human connection, only to find themselves trapped in an endless cycle of miscommunication, manipulation, and power struggles.

This is why people often feel unworthy or “less than” around Level 3s. The essence of their behavior forces others to process feelings of defeat and unworthiness on their behalf—because deep down, that is exactly what Level 3s are always trying to avoid.

The Frustration of Engaging With Level 3 Consciousness

Communicating with 3s can make you feel helpless and suffocated, especially when it feels like you’ve tried everything — every approach, every word, every possible way to make them see what’s happening, yet nothing ever works. You break down, the weight of it pressing into your chest because you feel it so deeply. You try to express the pain, to make them understand, but they don’t hear you. Worse, they twist your words against you, turning your vulnerability into a weapon.

You are not trying to harm them. All you want is a real, human connection, just a basic, respectful, open-hearted conversation. But every time you try, they shut you down, reject your plea, and somehow twist your words until you are the problem. You try to calm things down, to steer the conversation toward understanding, and yet, somehow, this only confirms to them that you are in the wrong or that you are doing something to them.

It’s maddening. It’s exhausting. It’s the same cycle, over and over. You are simply trying to speak the truth about what’s happening. Yet no matter how you phrase it, no matter how careful you are, it always ends with you being silenced, dismissed, or worst of all, proving their point for them.

They don’t seek conversation. They seek control. They approach every interaction like a debate, while you approach it with honesty, transparency, and a desire for genuine connection. But somehow, they always manage to corner you, to twist things until you feel like the guilty one—the problem causer—the one who should feel ashamed just for trying to communicate. The only way to avoid conflict is to give in, to let them have their way, or to silence yourself.

And that too is a hopelessly utter defeat. And so letting it go, surrendering, causing no resistance and accepting that this is the way that it is seems like the only solution.

If you’ve ever found yourself feeling utterly helpless, unheard, and overwhelmed in a conversation, despite your best efforts to communicate with honesty, openness, and warmth, you may have encountered someone operating from Level 3 consciousness.

At this level, conversations are not about understanding, empathy, or mutual growth; instead, they are about control, leverage, and securing dominance. If you are approaching the discussion from a place of honest connection, you may find that:

• Your vulnerability is used against you. Instead of being met with understanding, your words are twisted, and your emotions become ammunition in their game.
• They do not truly hear you. No matter how much pain you express, they deflect, blame, or dismiss your points.
• Basic respect and kindness do not work. No matter how warm, open-hearted, or patient you are, they will still engage with a win-lose mindset.
• They turn every conversation into a power struggle. Even your attempts to calm things down or create mutual understanding are reframed as proof that you are the problem.

At some point, you might feel as though you’ve exhausted every possible approach—pleading, reasoning, explaining, expressing your feelings and needs, even breaking down emotionally—but nothing changes. Instead, everything you say seems to reinforce their stance, as if you are trapped in a losing game you never agreed to play.

Why Does This Happen?

The root of this issue is in the way Level 3 consciousness perceives the world. Those at this level unconsciously believe that:

– “If I don’t win, I won’t get what I need.”

– “If I don’t control the situation, I will be controlled.”

– “If I show weakness, I will be taken advantage of.”

– “If I don’t get my way, I will lose power.”

This leads to an aggressive, competitive, and defensive approach to communication, where the goal is not connection but victory. Their subconscious fear of losing control or not getting their needs met drives their entire behavior, making them unaware of how damaging their tactics are, not only to others but also to themselves.

Recognizing the Tactics of Level 3

Because they view conversations as battles to be won, those at Level 3 engage in predictable patterns of behavior. You may notice that they:

• Blame and deflect – If you point out a problem, they turn it back on you.
• Dismiss and invalidate – If you share your feelings, they belittle or downplay them.
• Manipulate the narrative – If you try to clarify the situation, they twist your words.
• Gaslight and confuse – If you seek understanding, they make you question your own reality.
• Frame themselves as the victim – If you set a boundary, they act as though you are punishing them.

This is not personal—it is simply how Level 3 operates. They are not consciously aware that they are doing this; it is their default way of interacting with the world.

It’s Not Just You

The vast majority of people in the world do not understand Level 3 consciousness—including those who operate at this level themselves. It is so deeply subconscious that even those within it are unaware of their own patterns.

Because of this, Level 3 individuals are often mislabeled as Narcissists due to their narcissistic traits and behaviors. However, this misunderstanding fails to capture what Level 3 consciousness actually is, what drives it, and why it functions the way it does.

As a result, there is a profound lack of accurate guidance on how to navigate interactions with Level 3 consciousness in a way that not only helps you feel like you have a handle on the situation and that you know what is true despite what they say, but also in a way that serves as a reflection that encourages their potential for evolution, growth, and self-awareness. When you understand the patterns of level 3 clearly, you become like a conscious parent that knows how to handle each situation intelligently.

It is far easier to apply a label like Narcissism and dismiss these individuals than to take the time to understand the deeper psychological dynamics at play and how and why human consciousness evolves this way. This lack of understanding leaves people ill-equipped to navigate the complexity, the subtleties, and the context of each interaction with Level 3 individuals in a way that is truly effective.

It is crucial to recognize that Level 3 consciousness is not just a personality flaw—it is a developmental stage in the evolution of human consciousness. There are many different ways to approach and handle interactions with those at this level, but the most effective strategies depend on each specific situation and the unique variables within it.

If you are facing a particularly challenging dynamic with a Level 3 individual, I invite you to work or collaborate with me to gain clarity and tailored strategies for your specific situation.

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